In what scenario may a counselor's self-disclosure be acceptable?

The acceptability of a counselor's self-disclosure is rooted in the therapeutic relationship and the overall benefit to the client. When self-disclosure is made with the intent to enhance the client's experience, it becomes a tool for deepening rapport, fostering trust, and demonstrating empathy. This can provide the client with a sense of shared experience and normalize their feelings, ultimately contributing to a more effective therapeutic process.

In contrast, self-disclosure that only benefits the counselor or arises from personal reasons does not serve the client's needs and may disrupt the therapeutic focus. For example, if a counselor discloses personal triumphs for self-serving reasons, it shifts attention away from the client and can inhibit the client's ability to explore their issues fully. Similarly, if self-disclosure serves merely as a distraction, it detracts from the client’s exploration of their own concerns, negatively impacting their therapeutic journey. Thus, the emphasis on enhancing the client's experience underscores the ethical commitment counselors have to prioritize the welfare of the client above all else.